empathy

being who em was-spirits greater than the greatest of mountains- to what em is -therer is a yawning gap..theology ie being with the thiyyas may have contributed largely for this downfall...but excuses can wait atleast for the time being...I have to make em a success story...otherwise i would have to say with arundhati roy "even if what ended in tragedy, the fact that it happened at all, was a wonderful thing, you know, that it happened and ended in tragedy than it didn't happen" It has already happened.. but tragedy .... there is some distance still..